Not another heavy self-help tome–you’ve already worked out the basics of your relationship. You know who you are and who your loved one is. All you need is a quick reference guide, a reminder and refresher of things to do (and not to do!) that can instantly bring both of you back to balance and harmony.

Enjoy the tools gathered here by two lesbians, relationship experts and award-winning writers. Kim and Renate got married after a cross-culture relationship of almost 28 happy years together. They know a few things about keeping love and sex, romance and intimacy alive for good. Here they share relationship stories and reflections with you, blending wisdom of the heart with healthy doses of humor.

In and out of the bedroom — Lesbian Marriage: A Love & Sex Forever Kit is the little book that could.